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Dancing Bones

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About the Communities

  • Established
  • Ecological
  • Rural

Founding year

  • 1997

What we do

Dancing Bones is located near the headwaters of the Baker River on the southern edge of the White Mountains. Established in 1998, the original idea for the community was to create a village of people focused around Sacred Circle Dance. That foundation has evolved to center around simple living in cooperation with the environment and people with whom we share our daily lives.
The land we live on is a rugged, heavily wooded site of approximately 40 acres close to the Appalachian Trail, mountains, lakes, and streams. There are currently about a dozen permanent residents. Additionally, there are generally a handful of people here as temporary residents. We’ve had families and single people of all ages, ethnicities and sexual orientations living here.
GUESTS / VISITORS: Dancing Bones is always open to visitors. If you have a firm time you’d like to stop by, contact us to schedule a visit. Those who are brand new to Dancing Bones are welcome to stay after virtually attending one of our weekly meetings. Guests are always welcome to help with work or projects, and donations to the community are gladly accepted. Those who wish to stay at Dancing Bones need to come to a community meeting and formally ask for temporary residency.
There is plenty of room for tent camping on the property for $50 a night. We also have a furnished guest cabin available for $150 per night. Contact us to check for availability, or book your stay with us via HipCamp (Our website has more information).
Dancing Bones has limited ability to accommodate RVs. The driveway is unpaved, very steep with tight curves and water bars. Additionally, we have very limited space to park large vehicles. We will not, except by special permission of a Consensus of Permanent Residents, provide any hook ups to electricity or water. During the summer months smaller RVs and conversion vans may be able to access the property but large RVs or buses will have difficulty. During the winter, access would be impractical.
The community building, a 16×16 structure with a kitchen, pantry and shower facilities for communal use, is also available for Guest’s use. There is also a furnished loft available for guest use with a spectacular view! We are currently in the process of building a newer, larger community building to better accommodate our growing community.
The Permanent Residents of Dancing Bones need to know upfront about any animals, large or small, that you have and would like to bring with you. Animals must be under the owners responsible control at all times. Please understand that if, during your stay as our guest, a Permanent Resident of Dancing Bones feels, for any reason, that you or your animals should not be on the property, you or your animals can be asked to leave at any time.
Dancing Bones exists within the town of Wentworth, NH and while there is a gas station and convenience store, the nearest “civilization” of any size is Plymouth, NH to the south-east or Bradford, VT to the north-west. Both are about 20 miles (30 min) away. There is no public transportation system.
Dancing Bones is not entirely off grid. We do have electricity and access to mostly reliable wifi. There is running water in the Community Building and Dancing Bones is an avid supporter of composting toilets. In chillier months, cabins are heated by wood or propane stoves.
Not all cabins on the property are equipped for year round occupancy. We typically do not welcome guests to stay during winter months, due to the lack of shelters available, and limited parking options.
COMMUNITY MEETING: Dancing Bones governs through the use of consensus. While only Permanent Residents are formally included in a consensus decision we encourage anyone present, including guests, to actively participate in the discussion. Sundays are community days! We have work parties starting at 11:00 AM where we make progress on various community projects. We also hold our weekly business meetings on Sundays at 5:00 PM. (Initial meetings with newcomers are held virtually https://calendly.com/dancingbones-community/meet?month=2025-09 to schedule.)
TEMPORARY RESIDENCY: When a person wishes to remain at Dancing Bones, they are expected to attend a Community Meeting and ask to become a Temporary Resident. This gives everyone a chance to discuss why a person wants to remain at Dancing Bones, for how long, and to address any special arrangements or concerns.
GARDENS: Many people within the community have an interest in permaculture and we do have a few areas currently designated as community gardens and most residents have some form of personal garden space. In our experience many people have an interest in various forms of agriculture as an ideal. Dancing Bones’ land is primarily heavily forested and rugged mountain terrain. The open space we do have cleared requires a large investment in time and labor to keep clear and plant on. The community remains open to allowing individuals to pursue their food production ideals.
DWELLINGS: Dancing Bones offers the opportunity to explore creative solutions to the challenges of shelter. Many people come here with excitement to try new ideas. We have had people live in tents, yurts, wigwams, greenhouses, straw bale structures, and self built cabins. In the early years of Dancing Bones, everyone that came to live here had to build their own structure. As time has passed, former members have moved on and there are now some structures available to house those new to the community. If you are wanting to build a new structure, that is something that needs to be discussed and approved by consensus.
COMMUNITY EXPENSES: Each year we set a budget for our property taxes, expected utilities and maintenance expenses and divide that amount by the number of adult community members. This becomes our community fee for the year. All the land is held by the Baker Valley Community Land Trust and subject to our full consensus decision making.
COMMUNITY MEMBERS: Becoming a Community Member of the Dancing Bones Community is a significant commitment representing an understanding that the individual affects the lives of all the people in the community and shows a willingness to be affected by all the people of the community. Once a new member is accepted, they are included in the consensus. People may ask to become Community Members at any time, but typically new members aren’t considered during winter months.

Our Mission

Simply Living, Interdependently.

  • Purpose
  • Ecological
  • Community type
  • Ecovillage
  • Sustainability practices
  • Waste reduction / composting
  • Permaculture design

Commemorative dates

  • January 1, 1997
  • Started planning
  • January 1, 1998
  • Started living together
  • 7 Total members
  • Open to new members
  • Open to visitors
Total
8

How to join

Adult applicants must be 21 years of age or older. Potential new members will receive further information on our membership policy after attending a weekly community meeting after formally expressing their intention to become a Dancing Bones provisional community member. Typically, new members are not considered in colder months (New Member Season roughly being April 1st – September 1st). All new members are subject to community consensus approval.

Basic expectations or agreements for members

Dancing Bones is always open to visitors. If you have a firm time you’d like to stop by, send an email to set up a time that works for you and the community. Those who are brand new to Dancing Bones will need to virtually attend one of our weekly meetings.
We need to know upfront about any animals, large or seemingly insignificant, that you have and would like to bring with you. Animals must be under the owners responsible control at all times.
Those who wish to stay at Dancing Bones need to come to a community meeting and formally ask for temporary residency.

Primary decision-making authority

  • All Community Members Together

The whole membership decides collectively.

Decision-making process

  • Full Consensus

Everyone must agree before moving forward.

Governance structure

  • Collaborative/Horizontal

Power and responsibility are shared relatively equally among members.

Conflict resolution approach

Consensus of those present (no less than a quorum). Full consensus for irrevocable decisions, e.g., membership, construction, land changes.

Economic model

  • Independent Finances

Members maintain separate personal finances with minimal sharing.

Economic scenarios for this community

  • Members need to pay fees, dues, or similar to live there on a per month or per year basis
  • There is a labor obligation
  • Members typically need to have their own job or other personal source of income to cover their expenses while living in the community?

Additional economic information

Regular fees: Yes
Labor: Encouraged or suggested
Members with pre-existing debt: allowed
We share utilities, taxes, maintenance and infrastructure costs, all of which is covered in the monthly fee. This fee is revisited at a yearly budget meeting.

Shared resources and amenities that are accessible to everyone in the community

Common House, Garden(s), Vehicle Share, Workshop, Outbuilding(s), Fire pit, Internet

Frequency of communal meals

  • 1-3 times per month

Significant food acquisition practices

  • Wildcrafting / Foraging

Substance use culture

  • Substance use appears in public spaces but no pressure

Gender composition

  • Roughly balanced (no group over 60%)

Age demographics

  • Multi-generational (all ages well represented)

Property status

  • Privately owned

Property owner

  • By a Community Land Trust or some other kind of nonprofit

Setting

  • Rural

Countryside locations with significant distance from urban centers.

Community type

  • Ecovillage

    Integrated communities designed around ecological principles with sustainable living practices.

Sustainability approach

  • Waste reduction / composting
  • Permaculture design

Land practices in our community

  • The community practices permaculture

Self-produced energy

  • 33 - 66%

Energy sources used

  • Photovoltaic Solar
  • Biomass (from wood or other organic materials)

Self-produced food

  • 33 - 66%

Local, organic, or fair trade food

  • 33 - 66%

Food systems

  • Community garden
  • Greenhouse / aquaponics

Water conservation practices

  • Composting toilets

Waste management practices

  • Composting
  • Land area size
    40 acres

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Location

  • New Hampshire, United States

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Restoring Choice - free online practice group, from Australia

Restoring Choice – free sessions and a practice group Many of us are less practised at three things than we realise: making clear requests, saying no when it isn’t a full yes, and hearing no without something getting damaged. These aren’t personality traits. They’re capacities that were trained out of many of us by ordinary structures – families where some needs were allowed and others weren’t, workplaces that reward overstretch. They can be trained back. Why this might interest people here Most communities teach communication after people arrive, once conflict has already surfaced. This works the other way round – building capacity first, and finding out what a group can do when most people already have it. What’s running Free 60-minute introduction, online. Same session each time; come to whichever suits. Register for intro session below: https://events.humanitix.com/reclaim-your-power-with-restoring-choice Four-week practice group, Tuesdays from 15 September, 6:30-8:00pm. One session a week, and at least one short written entry a day about a real situation in your own life. The writing is the actual work; the sessions support it. Sign up by Sunday 13 September. Register for practice group below: https://events.humanitix.com/restoring-choice-practice-group Everything is free. Times are Australian Eastern 6:30pm here is the early hours in most of the Americas. Worth checking before you register. Who it’s for No prior experience needed. It isn’t therapy, and I’m not a therapist. Many people find that looking honestly at how well they ask, decline, or hear a no is less flattering than expected. That’s common, and it isn’t a verdict on anyone. Run by Glenn Russo – 13 years practising this material, seven years co-facilitating an NVC practice group in Castlemaine. If you’re already living in community and would rather share what you’ve learned than join anything, I’d like to hear from you too.
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What’s here now: An intention, a framework developed over five years, and a programme running in central Victoria to find people to build with. No land, no group, no timeline. The question this is organised around: What makes a community of people living together sustainable over decades – where people enjoy being there, conflict is low, and the conflict that does arise gets handled in ways people value. The distinctive premise is capacity before formation. Most communities form first and build relational skill afterwards, usually under pressure. This one proposes doing it the other way round: people build the capacities first, and the group forms from people who have them. That includes a working idea about collective capacity – that a group has a ratio, and below some threshold it can’t metabolise its own conflict and starts consuming itself. Roughly: in a group of twenty, perhaps three or four with high capacity, most in the middle, and very few without. Untested, and something this project exists to find out. Governance: Sociocracy, with the intention of testing it meaningfully at scale rather than adopting it nominally. What’s actually happening: A three-week residency at a property near Castlemaine, and a practice group running before it. The medium-term aim is twenty to forty people at a rented facility. The long-term aim is a support hub sharing the framework more widely. What I’m looking for: People who want to build this capacity seriously, and who might eventually want to build something together. Not necessarily people who want to live here – the current property probably isn’t the long-term site. Happy to hear from anyone this resonates with, including people already in community who’d rather share what they’ve learned than join anything.
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